How to have an Authentic Romantic Relationship

As I begin to explore the concept of eventually having an authentic romantic relationship, I am really uncovering where the bulk of the work within romance lies for myself personally and I assume others as well. Formally, I had constructed this concept of what I needed to be in a relationship based on what hadn’t […]

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Patriarchy and Codependency

  I have stood against the concept of patriarchy for a while now.  I have been aware of how insidious codependency was for a time as well.  However, it was not until yesterday, I realized as a man, patriarchy and codependency go hand in hand.  Codependency is one of the tools of a patriarch.  Ruling […]

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An addicts unrequited love is not love lost

I have always been a hopeless romantic, falling quickly and feeling deeply, often times it would be unrequited love.   I would become enamored with women who were incapable of or had no genuine desire to return those emotions.  They were usually initially emotionally intrigued but at a certain point, they would disconnect.  I used […]

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